I am definitely going to have to jot down some rewards. Hubby and I thought of a great sort of reward for when i've lost the weight. I don't wear my eternity ring anymore as it's too tight with my engagement and wedding rings, so it will be such a lovely reward to be able to wear that again
I was 56kgs when we got married! It's a wonder my rings fit at all anymore!
I got to the stage where my wedding ring was worn on my little finger...and getting to where it was so tight that I would soon have to consider putting it on a chain and wear it around my neck instead. As I lost weight, the ring would became loose on my finger and I would have to transfer it to a bigger finger. I got so successful at it that the ring stayed on my wedding finger for a few weeks before I had to shift it to my middle finger. I can now put my ring on every finger of my hand (including my thumb) where once only the small one could fit (with effort). So believe...it is possible!
The difference between men and women? Perhaps (speaking in broad stereo types)...men don't change for change sake...ever tried to throw out some old clothes your guy has worn for years or noticed that when he buys new clothes he is lamenting that they don't make any more the old style that he likes? But once a man is seized with the need for change...he just does it. Hard to get him to move...but once moving - don't get in the way!
With women, I think they like choices and because there are so many things to choose from that sometimes all those choices overwhelm them and side tracks them from following a course right to the end. Just an idea...but weight loss research now show that EVERYONE is having trouble losing weight nowadays.