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Have you been told of as fat by your partner?

Poll ended at Fri Apr 14, 2006 8:04 pm

Yes, that's why I left him
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No votes
Yes, look at me now!
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17%
Yes, so?
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17%
No, he dares?
2
33%
No, but he's been hinting
2
33%
No, I told him off
0
No votes
 
Total votes : 6

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Postby sokbee » Fri Mar 31, 2006 8:04 pm

Hi heavy bodies!

Well,well, i am heavy body too! So, dont' get offended please! Are we here to here for each other?

I am an overweight chick now, but i used to be an obese chick 2 months ago.

Want to know, what makes me wanted to lose weight?

What would you do, and how would you feel when....

"I am fat, i need to lose weight!"

"No, you're not, come on let's go on the scale."

"Haha! You are FAT!"

"You are FAT!"

Well, if it ever happens to you! It has denitely happened to me. It's undescibtable, how would you describe it?

Well, i went online get got myself a well-known supplement, and guess what? I have lost 5 kg so far. I am not showing off, I still have long long long long long way to go........

As I said, I want to be in control! My life, and off course my body, i want to be responsible of how I look and how I feel!

So, let's help and be here for each other to be 'IN CONTROL"! Sista!
I am trying to lose weight badly, as I wanted to be healthy and feel good, sexy and I just want to be in control again. I want to be in control of my life and off course my body, and the way I look!
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Postby Butterfly_Dawn » Fri Mar 31, 2006 8:07 pm

Hi Sokbee,
well done on the weight you have lost so far. You'll find lots of support and information on this website to help you achieve your goals!

It would be terrible to have your partner degrade you for your weight. Luckily, my partner loves me for who I am and encourages me to lose weight and get fit, but he would never and has never made me feel bad about my weight.

Some poeple just aren't worth bothering about!
Cheers,
Tegan
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15kg gained again (as at October 2010).
Back to the drawing board - Let's do this thing!

"You can't change the winds, but you can change the sails"

"Reach out and take control of what lands in your lap"

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Thanks Butterfly_Dawn

Postby sokbee » Fri Mar 31, 2006 8:28 pm

Thanks for that, Butterfly_Dawn.

To be fair, he is a nice and lovely, just that, i think, as a man, he doesn't understand that, by saying so, it really really really hit right to the deepest point of my heart.

Well,well, at least we are both losing wieght, and getting fit now!

BTW, I have been telling him of all times, he just doesn't really care. As I go on the diet, he actually went on with me! It was a great shock!

I just want to be 'in control' of myself, how can I let myself down? by getting fat and feeling ugly when i go to the fitting room? Nothing look good on me! That's disgusting!

Well, well, I am allright, just need to keep going!

Thanks for all your support!

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I am trying to lose weight badly, as I wanted to be healthy and feel good, sexy and I just want to be in control again. I want to be in control of my life and off course my body, and the way I look!
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Postby Angel » Sat Apr 01, 2006 4:32 pm

Welcome Sokbee,

I've had that said to me in a more diplomatic way, but lets face it, if those we love can't be honest with us when we ask them a question, what sort of relationship do we really have. Sure it hurt me to hear, "yeh, you are looking a little heavy" but it had the desired effect, it made me realise how unhappy I was with my weight and how I needed to change it, for me. Its funny how we can convince ourselves that we aren't fat, or not really see the real person in the mirror - I'm sure I've got a mirror like the one at fun parks - makes you look skinner than you are!

Your partner could learn diplomacy, but if he hadn't said it you may not have started your journey. Don't get me wrong I'm not telling you to thank him.

I think its great that he's got on board your weightloss journey, things are so much easier when you do it with someone else.

Catch you in the forum,
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Postby thinkthin » Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:34 pm

hi Sokbee

A boyfriend once said to me that part of the reason he loved me was his physical atraction to me and that the more weight I put on the less attractive I become. He said that it may get to the point where he would look elsewhere. I told him to do just that. The reason I had put on weight was all the chocolates he gave me and dinners he took me out on to try and buy my love.

His idea of support was to buy me clothes in the size he wanted me to be. Too much pressure if you ask me.

Hopefully this forum will help you, like me, reach your goal. With friendly positive advise and input. Good luck. See you at the end.
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Postby KimE » Tue Apr 25, 2006 5:04 pm

Hi sokbee welcome aboard.

My partner accepts and loves me anyway I am but has started to really encourage me now he is seeing I am actually losing weight.

Well done on your weight loss to date and good luck for the future.
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Postby sokbee » Thu Apr 27, 2006 8:21 pm

Hi there,

Thanks for all your supports and the experience you shared with me.

I've trying to get rid off those extras that since I don't know when. But, this time, I can see that I am getting really into it.

As I've mentioned, I have been taking Admin Censored, which helps me greatly! Then, I also go for Pilates twice a week, and it makes me feel that I am getting stronger and better ( nothing much is losing weight, just help to scrupture the body), and i've just got myself a cross trainer, and I've been working on it 1-2 times each day fro 15-20 minutes.

Most of all, He start saying that he can see my changes! For me, I finally get to wear tight top without feeling so ugly for so long. And, as anyone would do, I like that, and it makes me keep working harder!

I've been trying on clothings that I'been putting in the 'cold room' for a while, and they are looking 'getting there' !

So far, I've been pretty happy with myself, although I do cheat sometimes by eating ice-cream, cakes. Well, I also noticed that I've been checking out the calaries of food that's on the table or pantry. For me, I seriously think that I am getting smarter and healthier!

Lastly, I just want to say that I LIKE IT!

With love,

sokbee
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Postby Dolly » Thu Apr 27, 2006 8:47 pm

Hi and welcome to the forum.
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