Hi all. i just joined this forum to see if i could get inspiration to help myself get back into shape. since i met my wife i have gained almost 30lbs. i am extreemly happy in my relationship but depressed with myself appearance. before we met i was in the gym 4 or 5 days a week and eating right. i could remember when when my wife and i were dating i would go to the gym before i would go out with her at night. i have since then lost that drive and do not know what to do to get it back. its very depressing. does anyone have any advise?