Good luck with your weightloss, and well done on deciding to take action! You can do it - I think the trick is to not think of it as 60kgs to lose, as that seems so daunting. Aim for small goals, like getting down into the next "decade" or losing 5 or 10kgs. Doing it in blocks makes it seem more manageable. I started off at 115kgs, and my mini goal is to get down to 75kgs, which seemed so far away when I first started! I just tried to focus on getting down to under 110, then under 100, then under 90 and so on. It's a slow process, but over time, the weight will come off, and soon all those little bits will start adding up! Ultimately I'd like to get down to 65kgs, and that doesn't seem so far away now
That would be 50kgs in total, which isn't too far off what you are looking at doing too! I've failed so many diets in the past, and tried everything - so if I can do this, anyone can
They key is just to accept that everyone has bad days and screws up, and to just put it behind you and go back to eating healthily asap. One bad meal won't make you fat, but a meal which turns into a day of bad eating, which turns into a week, which turns into a month will!