I totally get what you are saying about your shape....a very frustrating shape indeed. Have you ever tried weights to balance it all out? Well that's what it did to me anyway. When I was alot slimmer it made a huge difference, it made my shoulders look broader which balanced out my entire body to look more in proportion, it also made my boobs look bigger.
I don't know just a thought.
First mini goal is to reach 110kgs - achieved November 2011
Second mini Goal is to reach 105kgs -