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che wrote:can you help me to do the same then, cos i can't figure it out!
nini wrote:Hi , Im new to this site, and i definitely need help.
only 2years back , i had a body that was an example for others, even my life style. i walked alot, i was very active.i was a sensible eater.
i was very happy.
i was in a reationship for 4 years, got married. some how i got bored from every aspect of life. even my partner. we moved to a new place, where i had to start from a scratch.
had no friends here. partner was v busy in his job. i was becoming more sedantory, and an emotional eater.
my weight creeped up slowly, but still wasnt too bad. then i got pregnant, during my last 2months of pregnancy , i gained 12kgs.
with baby im too busy to look after my self. my relationship with my partner is fine now, as a baby is involved , but in sexual terms , its bad.
and now im so conscious of my body that i even dont want my partner to look at me when im naked..
my tummy is bulging,a big bulge. plus i have strech marks( as if only bulge wasnt bad enough).
now my hubby keep on telling me about my body that how it looked a few years back. i dont like photos taken of me anymore.
now my dd is 4months and i have already joined a gym but when ever i have weighed my self , not much diffrence. so i have lost interest in gym and excercise.
i want to start dieting, but as i said i have become an emotional eater. which is not helpful in dieting at all. infact , THIS IS MOST TERRIBLE THING EVER HAPPENEND TO ME.even when i see a good body girl , i eat alot. dont judge me but its really bad, god knows how im coping, less dieting itself.
now im thinking about dieting really seriously , plus will see if i can get a personal trainer to motivate me...but i know i wont be able to afford any.
and i want to loose 13 to 15 kgs ... and i desperately needs support and help.
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