Hi Norm (aka Angel), welcome to the forum!
I think most of us here are in the same boat, if it's in the house and it's bad, at any weak moment (to which there are many) we'll want to have some high fat food.
You're right about not depriving yourself. I think including the occasional naughty food is a good way to not feel deprived.
* Some people may want to get to goal fast, or might even have a sluggish metabolism and not want any treats.
* Some of may want a treat at the end of the week (friday is my take-out day)
* Some may incorporate a little something into the caloric allowance at the end of each day.
* And then there are those that treat themselves with allowable foods, they might indulge in a weight watchers cheesecake, weight watchers choc mousse, weight watchers ice-cream, lean cuisine lasagne or even a healthy choice pizza's.
There are many approaches to take and I'm sure once you stick to yours, you'll succeed to your goal.