I know...they are bad
will stay away.
New one: Will not let FMIL dictate who is being invited to the wedding.
This is a woman who has shown no interest in the wedding, turned up over an hour late to our engagement party. Has not called my parents once (no good when they put on the whole engagement party & are paying for our reception). Her behaviour sends me into a spiral where i feel like im loosing control and just not a good head space to be in.
Repeat after me...the wedding is about ME
not about a thoughtless selfish woman who has had 3 weddings of her own.
I find it interesting that she has been my only real stress point. While FH was in Melbourne on the weekend we found out she had told 6 family members they were being invited. They have not organised leave and accommodation. She then guilted him into saying yes and asking me to uninvite some of our old close friends!
The nerve! She goes around doing this, not offering anything while she only has to work one day a week and lives off the income of her 2 investment properties, while my mum (who is paying for a large chunk of the wedding) is out working overtime to pay for it all. I have emailed her asking for her to buy us a $364 saucepan set...havent heard back yet.
How is this a weightloss pledge - the stress she causes drives me to emotional eating....