Hey guys I just thought I would update and say THANKYOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR SUPPORT!
You guys are wonderful and really made me realise that I have a lot more going on in my world that her! My other friends said much what you guys did. And I just let things go.
So the update is, my fiance and I had our Engagement Party on the weekend, and the friend that sent the rule message was going to be my head Bridesmaid as she is the person that I have trusted for the longest amount of time. All of a sudden she decides that she isnt coming to the Engagement and her excuse is that she had to work, I know that she had booked that weekend off so she could come and party with us, then all of a sudden turned around and said that our friendship needs a break and that she thinks it would be better if the two of us just went our seperate ways.
She further sent me an email saying that you just dont know how friendships are going to work out and that she wants nothing more to do with me. All of my other friends are furious and I am just utterly confused! I am so lucky that we are so far away from the wedding we have time to make the changes.
I thought that I deserved a right of reply, so I emailed her as she wasnt taking my calls or texts. And just told her as it was from my point of view, that I had done nothing to deserve being treated that way and even if friendships do change there is no need to be a total censored to other people. After she got the reply she is wanting to catch up saying that she loves me and that I have always been like a sister to her... BUT WHAT THE HELL???
I just don't know what to think... also do I keep her as my Head Bridesmaid or use someone that I trust more???
Sorry for the long post I am just so confuzzeled