posted in your thread about this, but why not make it a weekly or fortnightly treat? that way, when you want one, it's not like you're saying NO, NOT EVER, BAD! (negative thoughts!) but you can go YAY, I CAN HAVE ONE ON FRIDAY or monday or whatever day you choose. Once a week it won't hurt your calorie intake, and it can help keep you on track the other days
just an idea!