Thanks everyone, I did send him another text about lunch time. I didn't go off or anything I just said I do expect my money back at the end of April after he makes his final car payment. Then I said weather he likes it on not he is our son and we do love him.
As of yet I have had no reply but the ball is in his court I am not chasing him. I know he has mental problems due to excesive drug taking when he was in his teens (he's 32 now) but I will not be walked over anymore.
I am not going to give in on this I just won't hassle him and see what he does at the end of April. I can always sell his caravan that he has in our backyard if he's going to be stubborn.
Refused to give into the need for comfort food today and have only had 2 cups Jarrah Double Choc drinks and some cheese.
Tomorrow I will be back on track.
Off to enjoy some freshly cooked Crabs that DH went out and caught this morning.