Sanov22 wrote:The hot drink/cuppa soup for a late night fix is a good idea, thanks. I bought some Cocoa today to replace the hot chocolate sachets I've been using, but I'll give the Dutch stuff a go once I get through it.
Chocolate (whether hot kind or not) has a bad rep that it doesn't deserve.
It is full of goodness so long as it is eaten in moderation and isn't the cheap fat/sugar kind that generally masquerades as chocolate.
I remember seeing a show about a guy who was trying to sell 100% pure chocolate into the UK.
He gathered a group of self confessed "chocoholics" for a taste testing.
The vast majority detested his product.
That was when he discovered that they weren't "addicted" to chocolate but actually to the sugar and fat in cheap chocolate.
Buy quality - buy healthy- eat moderately!
Sanov22 wrote:Thanks for the inside scoop on the maintenance diet! What a pity you weren't posting here while you were losing weight, would've been great to read those posts.
In my very post post to this Forum I said that I wished I had found it before I started losing weight.
It would have saved me so much time and energy. I reckon that I would have lost the weight quicker too!
I come to weight loss knowing absolutely nothing about it.
This was my only attempt at it (ignorance is bliss they say!).
When I figured out that I had to lose 87 kilos to be within "the normal range" it didn't dawn on me that what I was attempting was to lose 56% of me!

It just seemed a biggish number that's all. I just sighed and said to myself "if that's what it is then that's what it is - I put it on so now it is time to take it off".
To me it wasn't an outlandish ask. Once I got towards the end of the journey then the penny dropped that it wasn't normal.
Friends failing to recognise me, people doing double takes when I tell them how much I lost and saying things like "you've lost what I weigh" etc.
After I lost the weight I picked up a magazine supplement of people who had lost a lot of weight.
It was with shock that I realised that I had lost more than everyone in the magazine except one (but I lost my weight far faster than her).
I found out that many many people attempt to lose weight but only a few succeeded.
Why had I succeeded (with just common sense as my guide) when many hadn't with all sorts of expert guidance?
During my weight loss I had only read one and a half books on the subject. The one I finished was an autobiography that was half okay (had a few fishy new age ideas in it - but was of no practical help) and the other was so harmful that it nearly did my head in so I stopped reading it.
So I began an odyssey to identify what I did right. Since then I've read hundreds of diet and fitness books...sifting the gold from the rubbish (and there is a lot of rubbish out there). Slowly I'm piecing together the threads that God guided me (or just dumb luck - if you don't believe) that lead to success.
In my searching I came across this Forum. I found honest people trying to lose weight. I want to encourage them, help them and even to inspire them to success. I simply want them to have a better future - like the one I've found for myself.
Kim