Days on Diet: 1
Starting weight: 87.15 Kg
Current Weight: 85.75 Kg
Total Loss: 1.4 Kg
Goal Weight: 78-79 Kg
To Go: 7.75 Kg.
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Days on Diet: 1
Starting weight: 87.15 Kg
Current Weight: 85.75 Kg
Total Loss: 1.4 Kg
Goal Weight: 78-79 Kg
To Go: 7.75 Kg.
AndyJ wrote:Days on Diet: 1
Starting weight: 87.15 Kg
Current Weight: 85.75 Kg
Total Loss: 1.4 Kg
Goal Weight: 78-79 Kg
To Go: 7.75 Kg.
DD Diva wrote:AndyJ wrote:Days on Diet: 1
Starting weight: 87.15 Kg
Current Weight: 85.75 Kg
Total Loss: 1.4 Kg
Goal Weight: 78-79 Kg
To Go: 7.75 Kg.
Pretty awesome going there Andy! But then I'm not surprised, you seem to power through whenever you get your mojo back!!!Keep up the good work, you'll be back to your old/new self again in next to no time!!!
AndyJ wrote: One of the girls at work (whom I am in love with, sadly), said to me once, when I was about that 82Kg mark, she said to stop losing weight, no girl wants a skinny scrawny guy.
Now she is a perfectionist, does the whole make up thing, love to always to appear her best. She said I look my best is at around that 82Kg mark.
DD Diva wrote:Wow Andy!!!I'm gobsmacked to hear you're "in love" because you seemed so adamant in an earlier post where you almost vowed to steer clear of women! So glad to hear that the girls stand a fighting chance to win your heart, and THIS TIME treat you with the love and respect you deserve. I am very happy for you, and I am really hoping that this fair maiden will reciprocate your attention (which it seems, from her comment about you looking you "best at 82kg") that she may???
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AndyJ wrote: This girl and I will never be together, we have fought for years at work, giving each other grief at every opportunity. I have always been fond of her, for a long time, I have slowly got closer to her, by closer I mean we have conversations that are some what meaningful. She is not a relationship type of girl, and if she was, the guy would have to be buff, muscly, ripped and have tatts. I'm not her "type".
Does not mean I can't admire her from a distance. I would not say I am "In Love" as such, I love the girl and if anything ever happened to her I would be upset and wanting to help. But you know..
Blitz wrote:Hey Andy - how are you travelling? I'm not so worried about your weight loss so much as your head space...are you feeding your brain with positive drives? Let us know so that we can help get your head into the right gear.![]()
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I'm not her "type".
CronicBadger wrote:I'm not her "type".
I'm going to offer my inexpert but fairly informed opinion.
For women, attraction is less about preferred types and more about being attracted to guys who attract them. Confidence, humour and physical health, in that order. The order tends to be reversed for men when considering women, because we tend to be more visual.
Don't try to fake confidence, you have to be it, and exude it in every way. Faking won't work around them, as they can detect a fake as easily as a lion could detect a lame zebra.
Also, don't be a supplicant, since women can detect a doormat from 50 paces.
I think that her telling you to not lose too much weight was a subtle exercise of control over you. At this point in time I'd suggest the best chance you have to pique her interest is to not need her interest. Women have a built-in Neediness Avoidance Radar.
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