Thanks EvilWombatQueen it is a trying time.
I only hope you are right Sarah, I don't know if I can cope with anything else happening at the moment.
DS has been in Hospital for 3 weeks now and he will be coming home for 4 hours for a home viisit today. As much as I'm happy for him to come home I know it will be exhausting as his thought patterns are not connecting yet and he is still a bit scattered. It will be interesting, I hope I survive .