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Can't wait for the year to end!!

Postby Fairie » Thu Nov 29, 2007 10:07 pm

Can it get any worst. :shock:

I kept saying to myself that this will be my year, I turned 50 and was loosing weight. Well everything went south!!! I turned 50 in June and had a great family BBQ, then 4 days later was going to go out to our fav resturant for Chinese with a few close friends. Instead I get a phone call that Mum had passed away (suddenly) and I spent the night in the Hospital Identifying the body. Then my son who is Bi-Polar came off his Meds, had a Manic Attack and is now in a Mental Hospital, the Doc's are trying to get him back on his Meds but it's taking awhile. Now I get a phone call from my cousin that her Husband has Lung Cancer. He is only 54, I have known him since I was 12 and introduced him to my cousin. He has a 7.5 x 5.2 Mass on his right Lung and it is to big to operate, it has also spread to his Lymp Gland.

What else can go wrong. :cry: :shock:

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Postby EvilWombatQueen » Fri Nov 30, 2007 12:10 am

I'm really, really sorry to hear about all your misfortune. It's not fair that so many bad things can happen to one family. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better, but I feel that any trite saying I could offer would merely trivialise what has been such a horrible year for you.

All I can say is that my thoughts are with you and that I sincerely hope your son gets back on his medication and that your cousin's husband somehow makes a recover or at least doesn't suffer any pain.

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Postby SarahC » Fri Nov 30, 2007 8:48 am

I'm so sorry to hear that Fay :(

The only positive I can offer is... bad things happen in threes! You've had your three. It's only good stuff from here on in!!
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Postby Fairie » Sat Dec 01, 2007 9:14 am

Thanks EvilWombatQueen it is a trying time.

I only hope you are right Sarah, I don't know if I can cope with anything else happening at the moment.

DS has been in Hospital for 3 weeks now and he will be coming home for 4 hours for a home viisit today. As much as I'm happy for him to come home I know it will be exhausting as his thought patterns are not connecting yet and he is still a bit scattered. It will be interesting, I hope I survive . :lol: :shock:

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Postby rivenriver » Sat Dec 01, 2007 2:15 pm

Man, that sucks.


I hope things turn around soon!!!!!!

"___ died" phone calls are the worst thing in the world. The worst one I've ever witnessed was on Christmas Day when we couldn't wake my grandmother up. My dad had to call his brother and tell him what had happened. It was awful. "Merry Christmas! Oh, and Mum died." It's the only time I've ever heard my Dad cry.
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Postby hushpuppy » Sat Dec 01, 2007 2:26 pm

Oh fay u are having a run m ate . Things will get better . Sending lottsa love your way
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Postby soon2bayummymummy » Mon Dec 03, 2007 2:24 pm

omg life can be so mean i guess it all comes back to several things. make sure if u died tommorow that everyone knows u love them, ur wills are done and achieved whatever u want to in life.
i hope next yr is a better one
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Postby milkyway » Mon Dec 03, 2007 4:59 pm

All I can say Fay is that I hope 2008 is a great year for you and your family.
Just keep moving! And don't be lazy...
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Postby zeedeveelgirl » Mon Dec 03, 2007 5:43 pm

Wow, sorry to hear you've had such a bugger of a year :( :( :( I really hope 2008 is your year, good luck :) You deserve to be happy :)
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Postby GoddessInside » Mon Dec 03, 2007 6:29 pm

I am really sorry that you are going through this rough patch. I honestly do understand what you are going through.

Be sure to have faith in your willpower and you will see that you will overcome all of life's adversities.

It does get better. *hugs*
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Postby Fairie » Mon Dec 03, 2007 10:36 pm

Thanks everyone I am so tired at the moment, I feel I couild sleep for a week. Have been a bit slack on the eating and I feel awful, must get back on track. Cousin's husband is in intensive care so just waiting to see if he comes home and if he is strong enough for Chemo next week Must go to bed now, update soon.

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