thanks for the advice girls. in my temper last night (i hardly get angry but when i do, you will know about it! lol) i messaged her, and she came on msn, and she ACTUALLY said that she had no idea that i was upset. hmm. i think that's all i needed really. both D and i are incredibly unimpressed, plus she made up a whole series of excuses, pretty extravagant, as to why she couldnt message, call, email, IM etc.
She is naturally a very self centred person, and things like this only prove it to me, ya'know? oh and then very maturely had a censored about me as many times as she could in a facebok quiz (without mentioning my name) even where it wasn't appropriate or called for
i know i am a lot more mature than both she and my age, but c'mon, facebook quizzes?? thats how shes going to handle it?