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Postby milkyway » Sun Jul 01, 2007 3:11 pm

Kate - I went through a period like that about six years ago and I was one of the splitters and it seemed that every one was splitting up at the same time!

Emma - we're here to support you anyway you can. You sound like a determined and extremely competent woman and I'm sure you will get through this with your kids in one piece.
Just keep moving! And don't be lazy...
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Postby Ally » Sun Jul 01, 2007 10:39 pm

yeah I am the same Kate...I don't delete unless asked or the message is innappropriate...and Jen's post wasn't either of them.... :?
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Postby A_Corner_Of_The_Earth » Mon Jul 02, 2007 11:26 am

Hey Kate and Ally, that is very strange. I didn't ask for the post to be deleted. I might have inadvertently offended one of the moderators with my comment. I do apologise if I have, it wasn't my intention to do that. I just made a throw away comment that men can't be trusted and think with another part of their anatomy :). Was just expressing how I felt at the time. Oops
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Postby kate_turner2000 » Mon Jul 02, 2007 11:32 am

hmmm might have been a male mod? lol/.
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Postby Ally » Mon Jul 02, 2007 2:33 pm

no male mods here at the moment.....mmm if it happens again I might contact admin and see what is the go...it wasn't just your post Jen I noticed a couple missing from this same section.....whoever deleted should have the courtesy of at least letting you know why it was deleted, even if it was an accident.....there certainly wasn't anything offensive in your post Jen, not in the least!!
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Postby kate_turner2000 » Mon Jul 02, 2007 3:35 pm

Jen is awesome, she wouldnt have done anything to cause offence :P the male mods i know of, reckless and donk come and go = not that im pointing the finger or anything. but remember kates chow mein recipe went missing that time?
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Postby Ally » Mon Jul 02, 2007 4:27 pm

yeah I know that is why I stated to everyone that there was nothing offensive in the post that Jen had made.....mmm the mystery continues.... :P
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Postby milkyway » Mon Jul 02, 2007 6:41 pm

I remember Jen's post and there's no way I would delete it intentionally because there I don't remember there being anything offensive about it. I've only had to delete a few spams this past week, so I doubt it was me, even accidently. Strange indeed :?
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Postby emma21 » Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:03 pm

My 'situation' is still the same :?

I tried to talk to him this afternoon but as per usual he cant be stuffed listening. Just wants to go on thinking that everything is fine and it will sort itself out.

Told him that I dont see a future for us as a couple and he just doesnt get it :roll:

I am sick of crying over a man who obviously does not give a rats a$$ about anything but himself and his needs/wants...

Maybe I should just move and leave him here :?:
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Postby kate_turner2000 » Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:16 pm

it makes me cranky when people dont listen or notice what is happening around them, its like theyre in denial. you deserve to be listened to at least emma and understood where you are coming from. maybe put it to him for a trial separation and because you have kids ask him to move :P a bit of breathing space might make him see what has been happening.
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Postby Mandie » Tue Jul 03, 2007 6:45 pm

thought I'd post a quick update - my team won the footy (yay!) but joel and i didn't fight... he looked a bit sad at the end of the game so I "cheered him up" and he forgot all about the game... lol secret to a happy relationship perhaps?
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Postby kate_turner2000 » Tue Jul 03, 2007 6:53 pm

lol thanks for the tip mandie about cheering him up. glad all went well with the footy though. have you guys had a fight yet?
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Postby Mandie » Tue Jul 03, 2007 8:11 pm

not a "real" one.. we've had the odd niggle but we are both pretty good at talking things out before they become big... everythings still in honeymoon stage I think!1
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Postby Ally » Wed Jul 04, 2007 11:37 am

hehehe Scott and I didn't have our first big fight until we had been married for 15 months!! It was quite scary as it hadn't happened to us before, but I think the secret is to work through it and yep Mandie "cheering" up always helps 8)
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