Nan is 83years old, My pop died 10 years ago they were inseprable from when they met each other the first night my pop new she was the one & asked her to marry him, but my nan said no said & it was to early & wanted to wait for a while. Eventually they maried had 4 children but my mum's twin died at birth & they took her away before nan even got a chance to look at her & never heard anything about where she is dosen't know where she is burried that is what they did in them day's in that error. Every year on mum's birthday & when I had chilren she get very upset. She whishes that they had the technology that we had today back then. She didn't even know that she was having twins until she was giving birth. I've tried to ring the ryde hospitable to find out details of what they did, but they wont get back to me about it.
My uncle use to visit nan every wednesday night for dinner & take her grocery shopping every saturday, but he accidently chopped three of his finger's off & is not aloud to drive a car yet. My mum has taken over taking her shoping on saturday's it's hard for her because she work's fulltime & she has a 10 year old son that has sport commitment's on the weekend's & weeknight's.
She went back to the doctor's today the depression tablet's didn't do anything, he put her on a small dose of vallium & she is going to see a Psychiatrist once a week. I will give beyond blue a ring tomorrow if they are opened. I tell her I don't like her talking about death but she still does it anyway.
She does have her bowling club, that she was the president to a few years ago but it got to much for her & she stood down. She goes to the outing's & has lunch with them once a week. Most of the time. But she is get's lonely. My family have done everything to make her life at home easy, like meals on wheel's, a cleaner comes twice a week to clean she dosen't have to lift a finger, she dosen't want to go in a nursing home yet. she is quit capable to live at home on her own but it's just the lonyless.
Sorry if this is so long im just answering all the question's. Thankyou for all you support.