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madeline wrote:*hugs* ♥♥♥
That's all I can say, I totally understand your pain, one of my grandmothers have made comments to me like "must do exercise" "little bit fat" (in a joking way, but it hurt) and her daughter (my mum) feels the need to constantly tell me how much skinner she was than me at my age (she's quite a bit bigger now), but I mean what are you supposed to say to that.
Playboy_bunny wrote:I was at my parent's house for dinner tonight, and went out in the car with my dad to pick up their chinese food. My mum had asked me to get a bag of twisties and a bottle of coke. So, when I came out with them, and got into the car, my dad says to me, Grace, I certainly hope neither of them are for you. I say no, its for mum. He says look grace, no one has the balls to say this to you, so I will cos I dont sugar coat things, but you look really awful. Really bad. I have stood back and watched this go on for months now, and Im not going to anymore. We all know what you do with food, and its this easy- PRACTICE SOME SELF CONTROL. I am not going to allow this to go on any more. I say to him, its not that easy, he says yes it is, JUST STOP EATING. I say Im seeing a specialist for this, he says thats garbage. It comes down to you and self control, and you are the one CHOOSING to eat cake and things... we all know that you eat dinner and then go back to and from the fridge all night, and I am not going to allow it anymore, whatever you have been doing diet wise has not been working and it needs to stop now....he tried to make it sound as though it was for my benefit that he was saying it, but it was so nasty. He made me feel like a piece of sh*t with no self control and like I was a moron who chooses to eat and be like this....I have been crying since I got home and got connor to bed...I want to vomit, thats how I feel...sick to my stomach.....how can you expect the world to see you for you, if the people that are supposed to love you cant even see it? And I wonder why I have low self esteem? Im sorry that so many of my posts have been negative lately ,Ive been having a really rough few weeks from many directions Thanks cyber family! xxxx
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