with my husband, i had written a list of all the atributes i wanted in a man. Mainly personality, there were a few about hight and weight
but nothing about how he looked. I mentioned in my list values, interests etc. Some of the points were:
loved working with youth
guitarist and or singer
taller than me
got on great with my sis and bro
smarter than me :p
puts God first
more heart led than money
I had also given up on guys cos every guy i liked rejected me.
I made a lil deal with God (scary thing to do) that i will not like or date a guy for 1mth.
Then Ryan came along.....i started liking him, but stuck to my no dating for 1mth. And he abided by it, so the 1st of April we became bf and gf.
Now for the list, my husband has played guitar for 20yrs, we were both youth leaders at a past church, he hates me going anywhere alone cos he wants to protect me, my sis loves him and gets on so well, my brother respects him and loves hanging out with us, he is very intelligent, he always opened the door for me, in the car and everywhere else, he is a christian
he is taller than me
and as of recently, he is now a singer
Hows that for amazing!
He also told me, that before he met me, he prayed for a wife! And i came along...
Wow it all still gives me shivers
How could anyone say we were not made for each other