aaw thanks guys, you've made me feel really good! Don't worry i'm doing all I can to suck that tummy in for the photos, I definitely am not one of those lucky women with the super flat tummies after having their baby! It's weird I wouldn't have the courage to leave house in a bikini but felt alright posting pics on this site, that must be a credit to how supportive everyone is on here! My baby is much bigger now, walking around on his own (I think he is still a cutie though!) And don't worry bear, If I have the energy to get onto the computer after 4 children I will be happy!!!!