You know i've been tossing up whether or not to reply to this thread since it was posted as I know that I am the negative/unsupportive person being targeted here.
Jez, if you're still reading this you know that I have done nothing but try and help you from day 1 and I 110% stand by the fact that I meant absolutely no mallace, I was just trying to help you. I did try the "tough love" approach with you because I felt from numerous other attempts nothing else was working BUT what I failed to think of was that perhaps you didn't want or need my help or ideas, perhaps you DID just want to vent and then I come on all gun ho and fired up and have upset you.
I'm sorry you took what I was trying to say/do the wrong way because it would never be my intention to hurt, offend or upset someone, especially on a journey such as this one. I appreciate the support I get off this forum and I love to give support and encouragement too, but as I mentioned above it never even crossed my mind that some people don't want advice or judgement, they just want to express themselves. So thankyou guys for bringing up that possibility.
I wish you well in your life and on your journey Jez, i'm sure you will find what is right for you.
Saying goodbye to calorie counting AND scales for a while.
Just enjoying the new and improved healthy me and embracing my new lifestyle!