I'm sorry you didn't like weightwatchers.
If your raed through their weekly booklets they actually promote a healthy lifestyle and recconmend you follow the healthy eating guidelines (2 serves fruit, 5 veg, etc). They definately do not promote eating low point lollies all day like your workmate is doing. Sure she might be losing weight but that isn't healthy.
I can see how her opening lolly wrappers would be annoying, it would drive me nuts too!
I spent a couple of hundred dollars on Tony Ferguson after seeing the ads on TV and now wish I hadn't. What a waste of money. I've heard alot of negative things about sureslim, mostly to do with how much it costs.
Oh and in meetings you never actually know if other people have lost weight unless they tell you. It's a very private thing, they face the scales away from everyone so no one can see what you weigh, you don't even know what you weigh until you get your weekly book (or peak when the recorder is writing it down in the log book like I do
. In my experience everyone is too focus on themselves to worry about how much other people have lost.
Anyway, best of luck with calorieking. I hope you see the results your after soon.