Thank you Dragonfly
I am 23, have not had any children yet but am planning to have a baby next year with my husband.
I have been married for a year now and feel like i need to have a make over. I dont feel sexy any more and i
feel like my job, as i work in a bakery store making deserts and sweets, makes me vulnerable to eating more.
I tend to walk around a lot though while at work and always use stairs when possible. I always hide in bigger clothes
and am unhappy with my shape.
I even paid $80 a fortnight for a personal trainer and he told me my shoulders
are very large and my genetic build is wide which made me feel bad about myself and quit lessons with him,
I think if i lose weight i will also have to change my mindset and se that i am the way i am.
I have always been on the heavy side as a child and all of my family is quite large,
and really want to be slim for summer which is coming up and be healthy for the rest of my life.
I have very pale skin and frecals and cellulite and stretch marks and a little pot belly and BIG love handles
Not cool. I just want to be happy in my own skin. I bought a black dress i hope to be able to fit into.
My partner is very supportive but has agreed i would be more comfortable if i lose 10kgs.
I hope that i will have this forum as a support group x