Hang in there sweetie
, If you are not getting support at home, then find support elsewhere, and forums are the greatest place to start. Lets face it , each of us are all in the same boat (or have been) and all on different methods, for different reasons. Your husbands idea of "just stop eating" sounds like ignorance rather than support. Stay with us were we can support you and you can support us. Sometimes, as I have found, it is just a simple case of someone on here writing one little sentence that can give me the support to get over a hurdle.
It does not have to be expensive if you do your research right. I am not on any "plans" as such as I went to a naturapath. Mine is simply food to avoid and food to eat. I can have as much of somethings as I like. Weight has a tendency of just sneaking on / but so hard to get off. My Doc said realistically it takes just as long to loose what you gained as it took to put it on.
I am terrible in the fact that I "give up" a lot of the time, so are tackling my own personality and finding what works for me. Meal plans for the week are helping, and a nice big photo of Me on the fridge scares me away from it.
and every morning, I hop on here and read other peoples post, and success stories that way I never feel alone in my journey to a health me.