I have tended to just accept it. I know that having 2 kids hasn't helped however considering my friend up the road has 4 kids, and is about 55kgs dripping wet, I can't really use that as an excuse. It's amazing, becuase other people often use that for me as well "Oh Liv, don't be so hard on yourself, you just had a baby!" Yeah, right 20 months ago!!!!
I also often use giving up smoking, and I have an implant in my arm that would definately effect my hormones and weight.
We all have excuses, and I think some of these reasons are legit and not so much excuses but why losing weight is so hard for us.
I also used to say that I was beautiful on the inside, and people needed to see that, but I would love to be seen as beautiful on the outside too.