Thanks Justjudy / Ally,
I did (and still do) think it was a miracle to be expecting TTOM and have lost weight, considering I was (and still am) bloated like a flying blimp!!!
I guess the fact that they haven't hit yet may be a false alarm with the expected weight gain, even though I know they were well and truly due!!!
I am so over this TTOM thing now that I am older. I am obvioulsy going through slow-pause menopausal build up because my 28 days (like clockwork) has been all out of whack for the last year!!! And to make matters worse, I get the bloating for longer, and some cramping thinking "yep they should be here by tomorrow" only to find they do a no-show??!!
So who knows, maybe next week......
But for now, I'll just take any loss and not think myself lucky because TTOM is (was) due!!!
Strong people don't walk away from the truth, only the excuses others try to sell them.