Jo they are some great goals. You will get there and even if you don't wear your boyfriends clothing, knowing that you can will be satisfaction enough.
I have a confession to make. I was one of those nasty girls at school. Thinking back on it now, I cringe at the nasty comments I made to the bigger girls, because I am now in the same position. I weighed 43-45kgs from year 8 to year 11 and then puberty struck when I turned 16 and finally started to develop some womanly curves and I hit 50kgs. When I was 21 and in my final year of law school I started to pile the weight on and got even bigger womanly curves and hit 75kgs. Now I'm 78kgs
it's time to shed the fat layers to get to my goal of 55kgs!