Good on you for losing the 30+ kgs Jewels, thats fantastic. People tend to focus too much on the negative side of things. Instead of looking at how far you have to go, they should be praising you for how far you've come! Ive only got 9kgs to lose and I feel like i'll never get there! So good on everyone for losing! Its so hard, and sometimes ppl just dont understand.
My sister is like that, not mean, she just doesnt understand. She is a nutritionist but still!
When we went to see our family she said at the table that she doesnt feel sorry for people with diabetes because its there own fault for not looking after themselves - definitely the wrong thing to say at a table full of overweight ppl with diabetes! So my aunty spoke up and said, "well, Im trying but it is hard!" And then my sis felt really bad, but she has been skinny all her life and doesnt know the first thing about weight problems! Grr. And now she is starting a job at this new weight loss place for tf shakes, and she's asking me how many cals you should consume a day! Lol.