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MissE wrote:I get what you mean Rik, the tough love thing has alot going for it but with weightloss it has often taken people a hugely long time to even admit they have a problem and join this forum and try to lose it and a 'well you shouldnt do that' rap over the knuckles when they stuff up might well send that head straight back into the sand (or the icecream tub)
But encouraging, telling them they are beautiful, that tomorrow is another day, that they are just human and everyone buggers it up sometimes, we are not only telling the truth, we are ensuring they stay here and get the support that they do when they do well, when they make the right choices.
Maintaining confidence in yourself is a huge part of maintaining weightloss, and thats what we strive to do here. When people bugger up their diet or lifestyle they beat themselves up so much, they dont need us to do it for them.
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