sassi wrote:have i been whinging?HappyBella55 wrote:HappyBella55 wrote:
there is nothing worse than hearing constant whinging about whatever, especially if a person isn't willing to help themselves (I know I've been guilty of this in the past) its just so draining on the psyche.
Bella did an oopsie .
Sassi babe, I hope you don’t think I was directing this to you or anyone on this forum. I was just speaking generally as I’ve had people come up to me and whinge about one thing or another and they are not doing anything to change it, and it so draining to hear time after time.
That’s why I love this forum, so many positive people on here, who are doing positive things to change. Ane we can’t always be 100% positive, we wouldn’t be human otherwise
when I went back to reread what I wrote I thought - argh this could be misinterpreted so I just wanted to clarify that's all.