Im kinda with sue! My hubby is big enough to decide if he wants it or not, and usually he does! It's never junk I offer, usually just the end of a bowl of something that I've served myself too much of. He weighs 40kilos more than me and is by technical terms a 'Unit'. One of those people that is always being mistaken for a famous rugby player (to the point where, he had surgery last year and got VERY special treatment because all the nurses thought he was from an NRL team!- who was he to refuse the treatment!
) so it doesn't really matter how much of a good thing he gets coz he works it off- is very active.
The one change we've had to make is in regards to our chippie intake! We always used to share a 200g packet of chippies on a sunday night or watching the footy, but now I'm not eating the chips, he enjoyed eating the whole pack the first time and then wrote in big letters on the shopping list (SMALL PACK!) after the second lot! So he's conscious enough to decide for himself