by Mogget » Sat Aug 29, 2009 12:28 pm
My finace met and proposed to me at close to my highest weight - he has never had a problem with it. But he LOVES that as I lose weight I am happier, more active, more confident, dress nicer, am more playful, feel more amorous, and more likely to say yes to spontaneous adventures etc etc. There is no doubt at all that the above qualities make me an altogether more attractive person, and he loves that too. As I lose weight he also finds me more physically attractive - he has always been extremely verbal about loving me, and very interested sexually - but now he also comments on how hot I look, that I am pretty, that I look great. To tell the truth if he had said any of this before I would have not believed him anyway, and maybe he just knew that. We both work with a personal trainer together twice a week and he is just as excited about his own changing body as I am about mine (and vice versa!). I also find myself commenting on how sexy he is getting. Not that he wasn't before but he is MORE sexy now!
I never thought I would witness the destruction of a Universe whilst carrying a naked merchant banker...
