Welcome Janene !!!
I know how hard it is to be TTC'ing with the extra weight. On technicalities I've been TTC for 8 years - 4 yrs with ex husband, 4 yrs with hubby. So I know how heartbreaking it is.
My girlfriend who has a beautiful daughter has sent me photo's of her gorgeous 3yo. so every time I feel like eating, I look at her photo and realise what Im doing to myself.
Well done for taking the first step, its generally the hardest one to take. Feel free to PM me if you ever need anything