i know that there are many who cant even fall preg, i actually know two couples IRL.
I was just doing some thinking, thats all, as a friend of mine is preg for the 2nd time and was telling us all about giving birth.
I don't believe i said anything wrong or anything that would have hurt someone who has been having trouble conceiving, i was only talking about 'my' experiences and questions.
I don't even know if I can have a kid yet, I spose no one does until they try. For many reasons (some of which are personal) i would love to fall preg fairly fast, but i know that i can take a long time. And if i am still trying in about 12months I shall go and see a doctor.
Thanks for all the advice guys
We haven't bought anything yet, we just wanted to know about prices and things to buy so we can start 'saving' for that kind of thing, i am trying to work out our budget for the next yr or so so yeah.
I have also tried a heap of preg forums, but i dont have a lot of time these days, as i struggle to even get on here ha ha and i know it would take a while till i understood how those forums worked and read all the stuff, which i am sure is very helpful.
When I am pregnant I shall get magazines and talk to people i know etc and i read websites when i get a chance.
at the moment we are just cruising along, not thinking too much about trying and all that, we are just enjoying the moment
sorry if my questions seemed dumb or watnot but i was just being inquisitive.