hmmm... I've got an opposite spin on this discussion. My man has just lost a massive amount of weight (I don't know how much and I don't want to know!), just by starving himself and not doing any excerise
But anyway, I've reached the stage where I just don't want to go near him. It's like being with a completely different person - very scary! I don't feel as though I can tell him that I don't want to be with him because he's too skinny...
He's now talking about going off and meeting other women... just lovely, after 8 years
I know all of our partners say
they're happy about us losing weight... but what about if they really aren't and just don't want to say so? What about if they actually preferred you the way you were??