Ally, I know what you mean about the nice PJ thing.
I can wear a size 16 shirt but my bum is just huge, so I just look horrid in pj sets.
My goal is a pair of jeans I own.
That I bought, many years ago.
That I paid an astronomical amount of money for even though they didn't fit, cause I was in the changeroom and crying and I'd tried on about 30 pairs and none of them were big enough and I didn't want to admit to the salesgirl I couldn't even fit into this last pair.
The stupid things we do to ourselves.